Life brings with a plethora of experiences, each with a flavour of its own. I wish to share with all my readers these various experiences and observations that I have made during my time here on this planet. They may be funny, thought-provoking or simple reflections. I do hope you will find these enjoyable and interesting.

Friday, 9 March 2012

"Thank God it was me"!

“Why me”, she cried. “Why me”?
Her child had just died
“What did I do”?
There was no reply.

Her father lay ill on the hospital bed
It was not long before they pronounced him dead
Of a disease much afeared
Life had once again taken away someone who was so dear

God, you made my father suffer, please spare my mom
Let no ill health near her come
God laughed, kept her mother in good physical health
But illness struck her mind, a person's greatest wealth

“Why me” she did not cry again
Although her heart was ridden with pain
“Why me” was something she could never know
So the best way out was to let it go

But it appeared life with her was not done
It seemed as if she always lost and life always won
Now ill health caused her to give up her job
She took it squarely on the chin with not so much as a sob

For one can cry, one can mourn
From grief one can be utterly torn
But life she realized must go on
A new woman had from her been born

She suddenly found she had a lot of time
She found words to express herself in prose as well as rhyme
She found time to look at the world around
New birds, glorious sunsets, life's meaning profound

Peace and happiness were now with her to stay
Let life hit out at her as hard as it may
Happiness she realized she did not have to run behind
All she had to do was to look within peace to find

“Thank God it was me”she happily cried
She'd never have realized no matter how hard she tried
Life had given her a million occasions
To understand its most important lessons

Life's vicissitudes bring a golden chance
To take at its real meaning a glance
Never despair when it gives you a blow
You'll learn your lessons no matter how slow

Thus you take a step on your spiritual path
As your raise yourself from the aftermath
Of a lesson taught by a teacher most stern
Who knows just what you need to learn

Tomato Rasam - Say Goodbye to your Cough and Cold

Tomato Rasam

Rasam is a spicy Indian version of a thin soup which can be drunk on its own or mixed with rice and eaten.  The word "ras" in Sanskrit means juice.  There are various versions of rasams such as molagu  (pepper) rasam, jeera (cumin) rasam, poondu (garlic) rasam, elmachampazham (lemon) rasam .....

The most common rasam which is made on a daily basis in most South Indian homes is tomato rasam.  This is made with tamarind extract, tomatoes and tur dal (lentils).  The tomato rasam I am going to describe today is a slight variation with pepper and ginger and no tamarind or dal.  I find this a very soothing drink whenever I have a cold or cough.


Tomatoes (preferably the indigenous variety called "naati" tomatoes in the South - they are very sour and hence we can avoid adding tamarind) - 250 g
Ginger - 1 inch
Powdered pepper - 1 large pinch
Garlic - 3-4 cloves
Powdered cumin (jeera)- 1 large pinch
Turmeric powder - A dash
Gingelly oil or ghee - 1 teaspoon
Whole cumin (jeera) seeds - 1/4 teaspoon
Rasam powder - 1/2 teaspoon
Salt - to taste
Corriander leaves washed and finely chopped

Rasam Powder:

Dhaniya (Corriander seeds) - 2 measures
Tur dal - 1 measure
Red chillies - 2 measures
Pepper - 1 tbsp
Jeera (Cumin seeds) - 1 measure

Dry roast all the above ingredients and powder finely in the dry grinder jar of your mixer.


Boil the tomatoes.  Blend them in a mixer and strain the juice.  (Try and retain some of the pulp and remove the seeds).  Put it on to boil.  To this add finely chopped ginger and garlic.  Add 1/2 a teaspoonful of rasam powder (this can either be home made or bought.  MTR, Nilgiri's, 777 are some of the popular brands of rasam powder available in the shops.  The recipe given above is my aunt's and I can vouch it tastes absolutely fantastic.  Add water to adjust thickness to individual needs.  Add salt and turmeric powder.  Once the mixture comes to a boil, reduce the flame.  

Heat the oil / ghee separately.  (Ghee gives a wonderful aroma and flavour to the rasam, but for those who can't use ghee for health reasons, gingelly oil is a good alternative).  Add the cumin seeds to it and wait till brown.  Then add the cumin powder and pepper powder to it and mix.  Add to the rasam.  Garnish with corriander leaves.

VoilĂ , your tomato rasam is ready.  Tastes absolutely divine, doesn't it?????  Get prepared to say goodbye to your cough and cold.